More "No" is more "Yes"

The more often you say "No" to people, the more often you get "Yes" from them.

Games

Certain things are more fun when they're a game to you. Like career. Other work better when they got no games to them. Like family, friends and relationships (other than the romantic, bed and chase games). If you stop treating your career as a game, in which you get higher and higher, you'll end up unemployed. If you make your social life just a game, you'll end up lonely because people don't like to be played.

Feelings Are Like Stocks (or Money)

If you don't go about them the right way, you'll end up (heart) broke(n). The first safety rule of investing in stocks is portfolio diversification (never buy stocks of just one company), i.e. get yourself many and ever more friends.

Juggle Theory

Making new connections is like juggling. You have to totally not care about the fall (be cool about it). Only then will you put it out of your head and focus just on doing it right. With time you get better and pick better objects to juggle with and you juggle better.

Gamers

People who are (overly/very) self-confident at some point like games more than real connections. This goes as much for boys as for girls.

Snake Of Attachment

Attachment is like a snake. It takes you aback. It attacks on the back. It is hard to fight back. It takes back your experience on not engaging. Finally, its either you or the snake. But I do have plenty of right tools.

Facebook Surprises

Facebook is full of surprises as even when you look through your friend list, not just the invites, you'll very often end up saying "Who the f... is this guy?".

There Are No Exceptional Women

There are no exceptional people/women... but there are exceptional ways to make them feel and look special and to make the connection extraordinary.

Money Buys Happines

Money does buy happiness if you know what you want.

You Never Know If One Sparrow Is Better Than Two

Certain things are more fun in friendship and some in a relationship. The problem, however, most often is that if you want to go from friendship to relationship, the fun may be lost altogether. At the same time you don't know if the thing is actually more fun in a relationship or friendship. It's all a gamble.

The Art Of Second Choice

In groups you'll often have stars (suns) and people more modest in behavior (moons). If you give yourself into the first impression, you'll almost always will be drawn to the sun first. But if you study closer, the moon is more fun. Eventually, a night with full moon so much more pleasure than having your eyes damaged by staring at the sun.

Doses are better

Some things make your life better only if they're always in it. Some, however, make life better only if they come up in doses or otherwise they become so common they aren't fun anymore.

People who really like you

People who like you just for who you are, are like eclipse. They appear once in ages and you still often miss them or are in the wrong place to see them.